If you search for me outside yourself, you will never find me.. because I have been in you all along.
We were born whole beings and somewhere the history of this crazy time we began to believe the illusion that we can only receive love from the outside.
So first and foremost, love requires removing this veil of separation between you and it… unraveling the belief that it is something outside of us.
The only reason one does not attract the love they desire is because they are not giving it to themselves. It’s just plain physics, not some fairy tale story of prince charming. So what I am saying is, if you want to attract love, BECOME it. We are magnetic beings, only able to attract what we are, impossible to attract anything we are not.
If your main nutrients come from from the outside (ie. love, validation, approval..), you will be hungry forever. If you feed yourself with your own nutrients, you’ll never be hungry a day in your life.
So what I am saying is this: Reroute the pathway from out to in. Feed yourself with your own love.
Then from this place, you will be able to say: "To all the men who left me for my friends, cheated on me, toyed with my heart and drove me mad- thank you for showing up just as you did so that I could unravel my karmic knots through you and become the woman I have always known I am here to be... a woman whole in herself.