On Finding "The One..." 

First let's cover why you have not found "the one.." As you probably know by now I don't like to dance around the truth, I am blunt and to the freakin point.. So here we go my friend.

You you are searching for someone to complete you.. to meet you in the places where you are not meeting yourself.. This is a recipe for relationship disaster (attracting the wrong partner over and over and it driving you freakin mad).

Oh I danced this toxic dance with myself for decades, looking for "him" absolutely everywhere I went. Then when I couldn't find him I would I would fill myself with the next best thing, food or a substance (bagels & joints were my fav numbing agents). Until I finally unraveled the pattern, that nasty little bugger, causing me to seek outside myself for love.

How effed is that- we are love- it is within us and yet we have been programmed to believe it is outside. "The One" is not a person. It is the energy of wholeness within that than allows for potential alignment with another energy of a similar frequency.  

As Rumi says, to find the beloved you must first become the beloved.  This isn't woo woo magic - it's pure physics. This is the alchemical process of transformation and you can give it to yourself right now by

  1. Catching yourself when you are seeking outside for love

  2. Rerouting the direction from out to in and giving that which you are seeking TO YOURSELF.

Again & Again & Again. Until the pattern is reversed and you become a fully self sourced sovereign bad ass. 

These two steps are the gold, the simplified roadmap to wholeness & now you have it in the palm of your hands. 

I love you- you've got this.. and if you need a helping hand over the bridge I am always here. Email me back to learn the many ways I can support you.

With love,

Maggie